I too think it all depends on the circumstances.... If someone is just done and ready to move on, honestly I can't imagine the internal battle, but Hubs and I didn't want to move on if we had a chance to rebuild and make better what we already had.
Another thing...he said over and over "I came home" - it took me a month (my bomb was 2/8) to finally get that he wasn't using that as a threat or as an atta boy, he was saying, I was hurting so badly from this that I seriously thought about walking, but I'm here to try. I get that now. I was too busy focusing on MY hurt.
Again, I think every situation is different, but sweets, the one thing YOU CAN control is YOU. I promise, once you focus on that, it will make everything so much easier.
