A follow up on a reply to Lil. Lil said I haven't noticed any changes in my desire level or physical "abilities." My reply Smoking! WTG! ^5. Lucky doll!
My amended reply is: I am glad you didn’t have many of the problems that some women have.
I realize this can also be a problem if your partner doesn't appreciate this good fortune you have. I am reffering to the old miss match situation. One wants the other doesn’t.
I posted You want some female company???? BB would love your cats and dog. After thinking about it for a while, it “might have” sounded like I was leaning on you to change/fix BB. That isn't what I had in mind. I wished BB had some friends like your friends, but that is something too that isn’t something I get IRL Santa Clause list= Yes. In hand=NO.
Old business; The chatter during sex the other night, well the place was in the paper so we went to an open house. Why do I post this?
If it was that important to BB, I wanted her to see and I know she did too. It was an interest of hers. A couple of years ago, this sort of thing would have caused me mild resentment, but no more. Maybe some differentiation is taking place.
Some conflicts going, because BB was worried we couldn’t do our normal activities and include the open house with out being late. Me=yes we can, her no we can’t, we will be late. Did both with 5 minuets to spare and where we were going had a 15 minuet window. We were the 3rd couple there.
It helped to have an attitude I saw demonstrated when I was living in the south and saw in movies, a gentle "be still" "hush now" demeanor, used to quieten someone’s anxieties.
Open mouth, insert foot: I made a comment to an acquaintance about the internet and got home and took my own advice. I Goggled a term and up popped the SSM. Now what?
If someone does look at the posts I made, I hope they also see all of the effort I put in my R with BB.
More about your last post cobra when I have time.
Screen name? DYI= Do it yourself ~I need to Do it myself. That is, “with help”
