I agree Sol. I am by no means expecting H to be all smiles and happy........but I was just wondering, when you finally just either "suck it up" and put it behind you, to move on and be happy....or do you dwell on it forever?

I know that's one of his issues. He doesn't want to come home if he can't put it behind him and not throw it up to me in arguments, etc.

And I know he can't know how serious I am about it never happening again. My words mean very little to him and I get that.


....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am
I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon
~ Avril Lavigne ~
..."Nobody's Fool"...

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