UA, I don't think you should ever forget the past, but forgive what was done. There's a big difference. You forgive yourself first, and then you ask to be forgiven. That's the way it works. And you have peace and true love as the result!
But yes, there is a time where we come to a spot and decide to move on. I am learning that. And about good days, it's within our power to chose to have them or not. It just takes a little bit of courage to get through a bad moment and decide to have a good day. But forgive the past, don't forget the past. We learn and grow and mature if we decide to remember the past but have forgiven it. I hope this makes sense. It's straight from the Bible.
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~