Hi Nopkins,

I just took a Human Sexuality class. It was a requirement but I also thought it might help me understand more, hehe. That website is awesome, I had found that during research. I had to research "attractiveness". I wonder if that may be a contributing factor for the SSM... I am not a shallow person by any means but I am realistic. Unfortunately, looks do matter!! I have gained 10 lbs since I married... my H would never ever say anything about it, but I know he cares!!!! He has gained 10 lbs as well but I really dont care. Maybe if he gained 25 lbs, I would notice... and to him maybe 10 lbs is enuf for him to notice!!! lol Anyway, I chose not to let this hurt me because it is his preference and there is nothing wrong with that, it would hurt me if he ever made me feel bad. So, since I am trying to make some changes... I am on a mission to lose that extra 10 for myself and him, maybe that would make him more attracted to me again... If nothing else, I will feel better about myself and fit into my summer clothes!!

Anyway, I wanted to reply because I liked that website!!! Always good to learn something more or new!

(wow, she is beautiful! wtg)

Thanks!!