I think ... in her defense, that it took guts to post, here of all places.
I agree with AT that she needs to re-evaluate herself, and leave him be.
I'm sorry but who cares what HE wants you to do TSC.....you know what's right - this happened to you before (this is what confuses me - 2nd post in 4 months, almost identical sitches)......
So...you remember how you felt when your H cheated? Walk away from this man and his family. He needs to think of his family first....quit your job, move, get a new life somewhere else if you can't go without seeing him. Help him if you love him so much - help him save his family.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
