One more thing. It's WAH birthday on Wednesday. When I asked him what he wanted, he said time where he didn't have to do anything. Then he said he wanted 24 hours with nothing to do, and then added afterwards, that he wanted to spend it with me.
I'm not sure what to get him. I've thought about a couple of nights away somewhere, just the two of us, but it probably can't be do far away because if the kids and the business.
Also, WAH has mentioned twice about us merging our savings accounts back to together. I'm not ready to do that yet, although I haven't said that directly to him. I just haven't really commented. I have more in my savings than he does. I'm trying ot be optimistic here, but it still is a gaurded optimisism. I mean, he's brought stuff over from his place, but some things he still hasn't but away. I won't put it away for him either. Needless to say, that is also way I'm really not sure he's ready, even though he seems to do and say everything else like he wants to come back. It's just so confusing at at times and I don't know what exactly I should do or how I should act. Do I confront him when things bug me like I've been doing, or do I give him more space for a while? I just have trouble not saying things sometimes anymore, when the bug me.
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Me: 45 H: 49 Married - 21 years SD from H 1st M - 30 S - 14 S - 11 Asked for D - 8/14/06 Found out about OW - 8/30/06 Moved out 10/14/06 Moved back in 4/1/07
