OldFool. I finally got the time I needed to catch up on your sitch. I see why you wanted me to read your sitch. The differences I see between your sitch and mine is that it appears you were able to detach a bit faster. Also, my W was not so quick to file.

When we get the bomb dropped on us for any number of reasons, we all go through a similar process of mourning. Then the lucky ones find this site, work on them selves, GAL, PMA etc. Meanwhile our spouse's are still walking down the same path that leads us all to this point.
When the spouse has a change of heart and wants to start working. Do we enough love left to start over. Do we really want to?

hang in their my friend and listen yo your heart.


M: 39
W: 36
Together: 12
Married: 9
S 9
Bomb: 10/08/06
Filed D: 02/01/07
Seperated: 03/10/07
E/A: (PA?) 03/15/07
Divorced: 05/08/07