Muddle, my W does much the same as yours (surprise!), she blows up our differences (and why we can't work) and ignores/downplays the similarities. I've tried to play up similarities and open my self up to new experiences but, aside from personal accomplishment (which is of immense importance) there is no acknowledgement or change in my sitch. I'm glad to hear OM is not a factor any longer in your sitch. I have no suggestions but I do admire your fortitude and patience, mines slipping away fast!
