Thanks Sun,
I am not sure what to make of H's mood these days. SIL once told me that several times when H was younger and living at home he would blow up at his mom and move out. Once he figured he made a mistake and couldn't handle it out on his own, he would come back. He would also threaten to kill himself to get to his mom.

I just don't know where his head is. He says he can't take it anymore and has lost everything yet we are all still here waiting for him to come out of the tunnel. I just don't know if he can ever figure this out.

MOpsey