I am really worried and wondering about my H. D11 calls from sil's last night. Asks if she can skip school tomorrow because her cousins are in from out of town. I tell her no. Before I can explain my answer she hangs up on me. Call her back on H cell phone and H picks up. He says that he knew that I would say no. I said the only reason that I said no is because D11 has state testing in school this week and it is too hard for the teachers to have kids miss and have to make up. H wasn't listening to me just kept saying he knew that I would say no. I must have raised my voice a bit (not shouting) to try to get my point across because then he says to me that I should stop yelling at him. I could tell he was emotional so i spoke to d11 and reminded her of her tests and she came home a little while later.
H then calls. Asks why I was yelling. I said I wasn't, I was just trying to explain that if d11 didn't have the tests she could've stayed home,but he was not listening to me and was acting like I was denying this on purpose. So we talked for a bit and he was crying again. Saying that d11 is the only thing he has left. I told him I was sorry that he felt that way but I loved him and he has me too. He was so upset. Kept saying that he wasn't going to be around much longer. I tried talking to him and calming him down. He said he lost everything and nothing matters anymore.
