I too would have alot more sympathy and understanding for the OW if she posted that although she may love her partner she also knows it is wrong and wanted help to get out of the relationship.
Trying to find validation and reassurance that what she is doing is OK just doesn't fly with me.
This isn't about intollerance on the BB this is about believing what is right and doing what our moral conscience tells us. I am sure we can all find ways to justify our bad behavior at times, but taking a stand and actually doing the "right" thing is what gives us character.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
