Actually that is part of my GALing! My H told me last August to start dating if it made me happy,,in the past every time he said that I would say, NO all I want is my H!! BUT NOW,,I make myself look Gorgeous when ever I interact w/H or when I had to go to his work to do or get something, maybe 3 times, posting my pic online to meet new friends, any school function for the boys as well!! Weird thing is,,in the last 2mons., I have about 400-500 new & old admirers that tell me i'm beautiful, cute, breathtaking,,of course none of them are my H,,it still gives me a lot of confidence where I can hold my head up high! You see,,I use to have an H that complained about the way I looked, so I changed it,,I have now come to the conclusion,,if others don't see anything wrong w/me & I DON'T SEE ANYTHING WRONG W/ME then it must be HIM,,sometimes I fall back into the ole rut again but I just go back to all the compliments I've been getting and then feel sorry for H about what hes' losing in ME(someone who is so desperatly trying to change for herself) & possibly someone else is gaining!!!
It works well when you mix it up w/not initiating & going out w/friends-for me it keeps my mind off of H & his lack of ability to react to my DBing!! Good luck & keep him "wondering"!!!
M44H44 M18 T22 Sep7yrs-3/10 S23,22,15,11 10/07I file 2/08D postponed by H 2/09D on 3/09H moves in 8/09I kick H out 9/09H-PA 10/09-2/10mediate 3/10OW discoved 5/10H&OW engaged 7/10DDay w/atty