Not me on this one ! You are an expert thread locker btw Sol !Good job with Ben's 500 plus one !
Anyway....
Why all the intolerance on the BB's ??
This is the third time I have seen this in the last 4 months. Here was someone who was trying to reach out.. it starts out ok.. then suddenly ( see the middle of page one) folks go nuts about the affair.. bring their own personal sitch's into it and just develope a mob mentality and whack the thread owner with 2x4's totally ignoring the reason the person is here ! I hate this !
I know there are a lot of hurting members on the BB.. but geez guys !Do you think you can whack your H or W's other person at the same time you wack the poster ? It sure seems that way..
The responses I see here are mean and pretty heartless.. like "High 5's" for what someone else posted on this thread...That is not what this Board is about.
Walk a mile in the shoes.. show some tolerance and reach out to those that have the courage and want some help and understanding of what has gone in THEIR LIVES. If you cannot do that.. ? Well ? Dont post to them !No matter how ignorant and odd the post.
The Island of Misfit Toys has many members.. and whether you like the reason they are here or not.. or agree with what they did.. Dont Judge them ! That is not up to YOU to do ! Stop It !
Now.. My reply to this short 3 page thread...
I thought the early responses to your sitch were right on !
You do need to take responsibility for what your life is about and your present circumstances and feelings !
You made certain choices etc.. that made YOUR life YOURS. I would guess that you are/were here because you want to change/modify certain feelings and behaviors and learn from some bad decisions ?
If you are here for that reason.. well you are in a good place as there are many many folks that have gone through your experience (S cheats.. and then YOU do too/YOU cheat and then S does too ! ).
The members of the BB can help you assuming they can get over themselves and their sitch's (?).
