As I read the crap that was flowing from two sided it reminded me of things my husband had said that is OW had said. She actually talked to me on the phone when he first moved in with her at the first of Jan. She had the nerve to say she understood how I felt and that she didnt want me to be hurting and the kids to hurt. What a bunch of bull! If these women cared about the kids they would tell our husbands to take a flying leap. I agree with Lis and I applaud her for saying what we are all feeling. I draw so much strength from God but I am human. I have times when I just cant stand this anymore. It is at those times, God whispers Dont Give UP! My kids are hurting so much and it kills me inside. I am trying to be patient, I am trying to be positive and do things. It still hurts like hell to be in this limbo while he is living with his OW. I can say without a doubt I would never do this to someone. I would never pull a man from his family. I know that without a doubt.