I can't believe that a few changes in my own attitude made the whole R shift so much. But it really worked.
NodNodNod
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Probably because I was the one unwilling to fully commit like you said Nop and now he surely senses a change in me for the better.
YupYupYup ( told you I have been agreeing with you lately)
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He has been busting his butt to rebuild the M since we reconciled
This is a reminder to myself to take in the various ways my H has changed to make things work. I have some martyr traits, and I like to think I am doing all the work here, but my H has kicked things up on his end, and I need to let that in. MWD says one good turn leads to another, and to look for the positives. Sounds like what's happening here for you, LFL.
I'm also impressed with the way you handled "the challenge" on the board. You didn't duck and run, and in fact, moved forward. WTG...tossing you a chocolate!
