I'm not saying that HD doesn't have to change the dynamics. I'm not suggesting that HD GAL without his W.
I'm suggesting A WAY for him to BEGIN to change the dynamics that does not place the SEX issue as THE CAUSE for change. The problems in the R have NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX. If he makes any kind of change now, on the tail end of Mrs. HD's email, that is exactly what it is going to APPEAR is happening, and Mrs. HD is going to go into flippin' battle mode.
