I guess the point is that it almost seems easy once the two people get their sh*t together. But if one person is dragging their heels, it can seem a monumental problem to overcome.
Without a doubt.
Congrats on your turn for the better, LforL, and for an awesome evening. We can talk all we want about "enmeshment" and being "differtiated" and "self-soothing," but when all is said and done, we hold the keys to bringing out the best (or the worst) in our spouses.
