Crazy Stud on Studs

[Heartbroken]

My H wanted to me to agree to just end it too. The best I could do was push him into an apt and now he is starting to finally see the OW in a negative light. How long this new stage is going to last I am not sure but he did say last Thursday he no longer wants to file for D ----and he has been talking about D since Aug. He really wanted us to have a 'nice' D (not sure if there is such a thing) but yet he did not just want to do it on his own. I think he has doubted how 'bad' we really were all along it's the pressure of the Ow - since she filed IMMEDIATELY in Aug!!! She is now free and clear and is trying to get a committment out of H by having him file....house of cards is crumbling....