The past coupld of nights have been tough. I think about those words, "I just want to make sure we are on the same page, I just want to date, I'm not ready for a serious relationship or re-marriage right now. I'm feeling pressure from you and it is going to push me to not seeing you" "I don't want to hurt your feelings if this doesn't work"
I broke off a serious relationship to give this a try, I guess I was hoping for more of a commitment from her.
I remember from DB that you shouldn't beleive anything they say, so is this her way of dipping her toe into the water?
As of a couple of weeks ago she wasn't in my life at all (other than when we had functions with my D), so if this doesn't work I guess I have lost nothing. I can feel that pain in my heart already starting if she breaks up with me again, I think it would a lot tougher to move on the second time. It would feel like I wasted 3 years of working on getting my PMA back and having it destroyed once more.
Has anybody been down this road with a spouse that wants to come back but won't commit?
