Why are you intimidated by these two members of the opposite sex?
CL
I am intimidated by only one of the two actually and it goes back to the uncertainty in my marriage. The fear factor again??? One became a friend only a few weeks after H's affair ended. I wanted him to make our marraige a priority at that time instead of working so hard on this new friendship. All of a sudden she was a helpless female....needed help with snowplowing her driveway when I was home doing ours. She needed help putting up her Christmas tree. Numerous phone calls on the cell phone (We have a joint cell phone account so of course I noticed). Often he would call her before he called me when he was away on a business trip. She is cute, skinny, intelligent, has a spotless house on a river and a boat. H's ideal woman! Even his brother accused him of starting "something" with her.
