Just got done talking to MIL, who is rooting for us to get back together, she had a long talk with H last night. He got laid off 2 weeks ago and now OW's unemployment has run out and no job. He is very depressed that he cant buy things he wants to for the kids like he use to buy. And H and OW fought all day long. He!He! She has really been bi$$$ing at him. But he is really missing the kids. Even though he sees them 2 nights and everyother weekend. I am so proud that he is getting more involved with the kids and I dont know how or if I should say something. His positives Seeing the kids more Attending all the games Quit smoking, but he still chews Including me in some of his life My positives Being and acting more happy Not mentioning OW Not fighting Not talking about R
