Hey, Lissett, what you said may not have been polite, but it was the gut-wrenching pain that so many of us are feeling. In my situation, the ow is divorced from a cheating H, and now takes up with mine, and some of the things two-sidedcoin said are things I recognize as the ow saying to my H. I read all the posts here, and yours made me cry, because it is just the way I feel deep inside.
And, two-side, you really should take to heart the things you have read here, surely you don't want to ruin those lives, do you? Don't believe for one minute that that isn't going to happen if you continue along this course, because it will. My S, who knows about ow, gets so angry, and I am afraid of what this is teaching him, even though he said he would never cheat on his wife, if he ever gets one.(his words) Kids should not even have to think about this stuff, Daddy leaving or cheating on mommy are things that don't belong in a child's head. Just try to remember (if you can), how it felt to you when you found out about your H. And do what's right, and walk away from this man, and never look back.
Also, I don't know if God has any impact on how you live your life, but perhaps you should look at things from that perspective, and realize that YOU will be made to answer for the way you have lived your life.
