Mopsey, Happy birthday to your son. Hope he enjoys his special day.
Enjoy the chrisening tomorrow and do not worry about your h. He's the one on the losing end of all of this. Holidays, anniversaries, special events, etc., all play on their minds while in crisis mode. It makes the guilt just a bit worse and that's why they tend to avoid the family at those times as much as possible.
It shall prove to be a very interesting week since your daughter's birthday is right around the corner. Enjoy the weekend and try not to worry about your h. He's in his own little world right now and can't break down the barriers to visit yours.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
