LG... I guess I just don't know what to say... she's moving out. She's kicking up the R with OM. It's not looking good. Have you talked with a DB counselor from the board?
Edited to add... there have been people here who did Retrouvaille... not sure they're still around. But don't both spouses have to go? Why would she do that?
That is a fabulous article-- hairdog, you may find something of value there. I have said this many times on this board: "Long before any decision is made to 'fool around' or walk out on a partner, a fundamental change has begun to occur in the relationship." In order for an outside party to connect with one of the married partners, the married partner has to have a "channel" open to the outside.
