Wow, Dafty - That is one of the best written descriptions of Divorce Busting I've read to date. Thanks very much!
I plan to follow those guidelines, in giving my W as much space as she needs right now, but a question I have been pondering today, is whether it would be wise to invite my wife to participate with me in a Retrouvaille weekend that is coming up in Boston in only two weeks.
http://www.retrouvaille.org explains how the goal of the weekend is to reestablish good communication in the important areas of marriage. They do not offer these programs very often in the Boston area (there may not be another for many months) but 47 hours of communication in 2 1/2 days sounds pretty intense. I do not want to do anything that might backfire.
Has anyone here, attended a Retrovaille weekend with their spouse? If so, can you share what your experience was like and whether you think it would possibly be beneficial if the W.A.S. agreed to attend.
Me 46 WAW 45 M 21 yrs
WAW: "I need to be alone" 12/06 W moves out 3/07 Mediation finalized 08/08
