Two wrongs don't make a right. Obviously, this man is taken but he and you are choosing to destroy two other lives. No matter how you justify it, it is still wrong. You are enabling him and he doesn't have his morals in the right place. Would he want his little girl to go thru the same pain when she's married and have kids? I don't think anyone would wish this on her.

Do you love this man enough to let him go and do no contact?


Me: 36
WAH: 35
S1: 5, S2: 3, D: 2
Married 13 yrs
Bomb dropped Nov. '06
H filed D papers Feb. 1, '07
H nows says OW is GF since April '07