I hear ya, Muddle. True love means never having to fix anything either! Pure romantic clap trap but somehow our S's seem to believe it It's all supposed to be natural and spontaneous just like the rest of our lives are LOL! Hey, when you say "She'll just push away at the guilt button until I cave next time if I do" and "My concern is that she'll treat this as she often treats our issues" aren't you placing a pre-determined outcome on the interaction? So, lets say you do go ahead and bring it up and what you say happens, how would that change anything in your sitch? Would it cause irrepairable harm? No. Maybe what to do, if you choose to do anything (and I am not advocating one way or the other) is to approach it in a different manner, try a different method of bringing up the subject thereby throwing her off her game plan cuz I'm sure you guys have this present routine down to a fine art form by now! Again, just something to consider. BTW after all this time posting together you should have known I'd say this That's why we just don't work Muddle!
It's all supposed to be natural and spontaneous just like the rest of our lives are LOL!
That's why we just don't work Muddle!
