Well Lil, the disconnect was gradual, so maybe I got used to some of the disconnect and admitting to PMS, thought I didn't have the right to bring up the issue. Then if I did bring up the issue, how to do it w/o over doing it. Then there was the breast cancer treatment times, when adjustments were required, and other medical issues, etc.
You can't tell me she doesn't know it's rude I guess if you/BB doesn't like sex that much and have something like a princess or entitlement attitude, it's normal. Lil, I have read several of the women's medical issues forums, where the posters are doing woman to woman talk, many of them don't understand why their respective H's don't give up sex because they grew to dislike sex so much. A fair amount of the women there realize a no sex M won't work so they do sex with their H but really don't want to and don’t get that their H's can't feel their lack of interest in sex, more.
I don't see how you can even O under these circumstances Want to try on some things that Fran referred to a meat and two vegetables? When sex is good it's like taking a drug I can imagine. When it is not so good, I still have hopes it will be better next time.
Also, being a male giving up in the middle isn't something I want to think about. It doesn't seem manly. It would feel like I was insulting BB or admitting some sexual problem. It would mean I would have to finish the job alone, not holding on to someone I care about. I would feel compelled to MB to finish the job later.
Knowing BB does have some real problems with sex makes it bearable if I don't have to do something like this event every few days. I can build up enough energy/desire to craw through the mud pits, not worrying about the mud, but seeing the good things on the other side of the mud pit. Sometimes the mud pit isn’t muddy and fun to craw through.
I've never done anything like this That is good to hear. Before I came to this forum almost three years ago I was wondering if very many women liked sex and what I was experiencing was fairly common, which was leading to despair or resolve that all of the stories about women not liking sex and men being pests, was fate for most guys my age.
