Manly men club here. ;-)

I think this marital crisis has brought up stuff I've needed to deal with for years:

1. Long-standing depression.
2. Vocational malaise, lack of accomplishment.
3. Emotional frozen-ness.
4. Lack of passion.
5. Being overweight and unfit.
6. Sleepwalking through my life.
7. Lack of humility.
8. Prayerlessness.
9. Living in fear.
10. Being a people pleaser.
11. Being a passive man.
12. Lack of vision for my children.

I DONT WANT TO BE THAT PERSON ANYMORE!

Arise now, arise, Riders of Théoden!
Fell deeds awake: fire and slaughter!
spear shall be shaken, shield be splintered,
a sword-day, a red day, ere the sun rises!
Ride now, ride now! Ride to Gondor!
Ride now, ride now! Ride to Gondor!

--Theoden

--Theoden