Could it be that MrsHD knows that with a little stronger in-your-face confrontation, HD WILL postpone the matter, and she will have effectively shelved this whole thing once again? Could postponing it be another form of submission to the big dog Mrs HD? The 180 would be to take up the matter in earnest.
I think this is correct. That's why I think the NOP tactic (the 180) is appropriate at this point. Not immediately. I agree to let it sit for a while. But letting it sit too long will just look like more of the same.
