All your posts refer to if you said this or that to your H he would walk out
Well, quite frankly, in my books that is how it would go down because there is no way I would be putting up with the crap you are. Can't you see he is threatening you, blackmailing you - call it whatever you want. He has you exactly where he wants you - on the side, just waiting for when he's good and ready to decide what he wants to do with you
Sorry, but I would have to say the buck stops here - you choose!! end of story !!
You cannot heal a M when you are in the middle - and you are.
You and/or your H cannot heal the OW either - she needs to find other support - there's lots of it out there. sorry to sound so blunt but if she really needs support while she is going through this and doesn't have any family to give it to her, she can contact the hospital and they will put her in touch with lots of survivors that do that all the time (support groups)
the fact that she is using that as an excuse to keep him where she wants him is low, to say the least and to think that your H is so stupid to fall for it. Either he's lost his marbles or has no intention of every leaving her and is using this as he way to have his cake, icing and the pretty colourful sprinkles too
Get real and tell this bum where the front door is
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
