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Outstanding!
On to the sex in Stage 1:
This seems pretty lame at first, but you are going to have to tell him what you like by showing him, then waiting on him to take action.
1) Invite him to be the leader.
Wait on him to initiate. If he doesn't, then put your hand on his leg or kiss him on the neck or some other demure action, then wait again for him to take action. Rinse and repeat until he gets the idea.
2) Invite him to please you.
Instead of what you normally do when it comes time for the actual act, you stretch out on your back and wait. If he looks lost, then pull him down on top of you. If he is still lost, then you take his hand and put it where you want it to be. Again, rinse and repeat until he gets the idea.
3) Give him feedback.
Whenever he "gets it right", then a nice moan or an outright "that feels great" is appropriate. If he is going to lead, then he needs to know how to hit the right spots. Again, rinse and repeat.
Even though it may seem at first that you are in control of the whole encounter, he should eventually get the idea that it is his job to take the lead. Once he is "leading", then there is nothing wrong with you going after what you want from him, just make sure that you don't supplant his newfound position as leader.
Remember, the idea is to create distance between the sexes in order to provide contrast.
How are we doing so far?
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
