Thank you, mrs.cac4. While I don't know exactly what I am going to do next, I have really appreciated everyone's viewpoints.
She doesn't refuse to see a C. We went to a MC together for a year and a half, then went to individuals Cs in the same office following that. Her C retired (or moved), and W didn't want to start up with a new one. I'm still going to my C, weekly, and almost called him today. If the Jayhawks had lost, and if my son had called upset about his audition, I probably would have called him.
I know she's unhappy. As someone said earlier this week, about someone else's spouse: Your wife may be a woman of great integrity, but she is human, and in her own way, she is as starved in the marriage as you are.
