Maybe I'm missing something, but while I don't "feel" all that enthused about my wife right now, I can't see ever trusting her again even if I wanted to.
What I mean by that is really being close, trusting her with myself. Can't see it happening even though I'd like to be close to someone again. It just can't be her.
I can forgive her; I can care for and love her. But I don't think I can live as though she's trustworthy for the same reason we might let a spy out of jail but we'll never trust him with classified info again.
You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. -- Inigo Montoya, 'The Princess Bride'
