wow. i'm a knee-jerk emotional kind of gal, so i'd probably be NOP-ing at this point if i were you.

[beginning your inner rant]

'too tired and stressed' is a load of horsesh!t. the entire united states of america is too tired and stressed. i'm tired and stressed but by damn, i'd fcuk my man into next week and not sleep for days if he wanted it. but, you know, that's just me.

point being, she's MARRIED and it's NOT all about her. made a commitment, etc. and needs to UNselfish her stubborn a$$. man, i could just stomp all around cyberspace and scream in my frustration for you. [insert primal scream here] i am just so damned sick of all of us in this situation.

[end inner rant] whew! thanks, that felt better.

dude. she just is where she is, and cannot see another point of view. period. i would like to think your optimism is well-placed, but i have my doubts. \:\(

i do wish you could do the whole, 'woman, get upstairs' thing. frankly, i love that kind of manly stuff, and think most women would -coming from a man they trust. sadly mrsHD is too buried in her layers of self-protection/self-preservation and appearing in control at all costs, to be vunerable to you that way. at least that's JMO.


Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past.
See, I am doing a new thing! Is 43:18-19

If it seems slow in coming, wait.
It's on its way. It will come right on time. Hab 2:3

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