LFL, My relationship was the exact same way, yet underneath I was craving more of those man-woman interactions. And a funny thing happened ( well not so funny)...I hurt my ankle, and H had to go into " protective mode." It's been icy outside, so he's been coming over, helping me walk, dropping me off, etc. He takes my hand when we walk...it's become second nature. There was a time in my life I really would hsve hated all this; now I find it sexy and comforting. So here's my advice: every time you get that flash of independence, pretend you hurt your ankle, and shift your way of thinking/acting!
Have a nice time tonite! I admire the work you're putting into this. How did he like the cake?
