Ali, it's okay not to be perfect, it's okay to not look so great sometimes or to be sad at depressed at moments, or do something completely embarassing. It's our imperfections that help make us unique. And we have to realize those times are going to happen no matter what. Ali, you are wonderfull in so many ways, that entitles you to some normal "character enhancing" imperfections. Keep loving yourself in spite of them and celebrate all the pieces (the good and the bad!) of yourself.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
