Yes!!!! Be an angel! This cancer is an opportunity for you to get involved in their lives and show what a big heart and what a great person you can be... but focus a lot on how your husband is taking things and hard it must be on him... you need to become the ear for HIS troubles regarding her problems. It will show how generous and caring you can be.
Even if your marriage doesn't work out, practicing this is great for any future relationships. You will become a better person in the long run, regardless of where the future leads. (During my divorce I used to joke that there were times I felt like Mother Thesera!!! The funny thing is that being a "good person" made me feel a thousand times better about myself. It really made me like me!)
Also, if this woman is ill and doesn't look so well (and becomes jealous of you... very typical when spouses are torn!!!), you start looking HOT all the time. Get great, sexy clothes, start running, red thong underware and push up bras... take the attitude that no creepy OW is going to outdo you!
P.s. I like how you handled the photo thing. "Oh sweetheart, how sad that got destroyed. Let me replace it for you." Perfect!!!!
