Found H filed by looking at a check from his acct. Ick. This was 2 days after "let's keep the door open" conversation.
This is what I did...I was terrified they would serve me at work since H had no idea where I lived.
I called a L and got a consult. They told me the court that the paperwork goes through. I just caleld that court weekly, just to give me aheads up if I was being served.
Of course, you can just ask H also. If you both are talking well, then I should hope he tells you first.
My H paid a retainer in October and only signed in January. ANd we're still 'talking'.....
