Laughing,

Thinking of you, and praying.

You want out...

"Don't let the bastards get you down."

"Have at them boys!"

From what you have said, him being in town, sounds no different than him NOT being in town. Establish the same ground rules for the children that she has with her xH.

Isn't it amazing the power one person can have over us?
If that power is hurtful get rid of it.
If that power is helpful...cultivate it.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet