When I'm angry I tear up. It's embarrassing so I avoid doing it. In an intimate R I'm not so embarrassed by the tears so it's not so stressful to have conflict and feel angry.
I've noticed a lot of the men on the BB are conflict avoiders. Is this because they too would tear up as kids when they got angry? It's even worse for a guy.
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
