Hi, checked H's acct today and a check cleared for 3k...I am pretty positive that is is for a L...I am sick that he has most likely filed...he told me a couple of weeks ago that he was going to!! we have not even had a conversation about or R/M face to face...he has either mentioned things in passing or on the phone. Do I talk to him?? I feel so sick right now I don't know what to do!! Just when I think I am better I get slammed with another blow. After he files does anyone know how long it takes to get served papers?? I am going to have total anxiety until it happens...what if I lose it?? What if my kids see me lose it?? I feel completely out of control today.....HELP
