I'm sorry it has taken me so long...because I've been wanting to tell you this for many weeks now.
In the last 2-3 months you have had a blossom surge. You've always given wonderful advise...but lately you've been even more amazing in posts to others and your own growth.
I think it was around the new year...but your growth asnd spiritual blooming has seemed exponential.
I don't know how to stop the cycle other than to trust in yourself. Be consistent in your inner faith and convictions. He will button push...that's what he does. But you are consistent...those buttons don't work anymore. Trust yourself.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
From what you have said, him being in town, sounds no different than him NOT being in town. Establish the same ground rules for the children that she has with her xH.
Isn't it amazing the power one person can have over us? If that power is hurtful get rid of it. If that power is helpful...cultivate it.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
Thank you all for all your kind thoughts, support and prayers.
Xh testified in court that I have been interferring with his parenting time. Claimed I've been using parental alienation techniques to turn the children against him. I have been hostile and irresponsible with the children.
His attorney spoke for him, saying he is a kind, gentle man who only has love for his children. Said I was responsible for the lack of relationship between he and his children. I have been turning the children against him.
I have to bring my children to the police station at 6:00pm this evening, and let xh and his wife have my children until 8:00pm on Sunday.... I also have to make both children go for Spring Break. I have to hand my children over to his wife the Thursday before Spring Break..... so she can take them to California.
Once again, I lost the right my children had to say if they wanted to go with their Father or not, or to partcipate in anything he wants. Once again, he's been given complete control.
Thanks for everything.... I do appreciate your love and kindness.
Laughing
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you.........