First, kudos to you for writing the letter to your wife! You told her how you feel and that's just what she needs to hear.
Her statement about feeling too stressed and tired jumped out at me, because, honestly, I this were H and me and I was working FT with a kid, I could imagine feeling this way too.
So I'm wondering....is there anything that would make her feel less stressed and tired? Does she even know? Is she afraid to admit that she can't "have it all?" What does she truly want out of life? Does she even know?
Gotta run...I'll post again if I have other thoughts.
