You are so right... and I think he's waiting for her to give up like he wanted me to do. She will start pressuring again he said he knows this but he also said this will only expedite his ending it. We shall see again this will all take time...

The big thing is he says he's very sure he doesn't want to file for D. This is huge at this point...I did not even realize how much he wanted to prior to this. He has a 6 mos lease and he can use that time to figure himself out and we can use this time to work on us too!


Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10
8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth
2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home
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