I just not to be able to stop looking for problems where there aren't. I think with the ow lurking has really got me unnerved, I worry that he is going to be in contact and in doing that start this all over again. I do believe him when he says he hasn't had contact, but I worry its only a matter of time. I so want to contact her and tell her F*** off and leave us alone. I know she called him the other day to fish and see if he was still game, and I think it will only be a matter of time before she steps up her game and finds other ways to contact him!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!