It sounds like things are going in the right direction, however be prepared that H may change his mind ( or think he has) as OW pressures him, makes him feel guilty and continues to control many of his emotions. His feelings for OW are real and although it hurts so much for the betrayed partner to hear it, it is a fact. My H had feelings for OW for a long time even after he moved home and their A was on and off for too long. I believe it was because he had real feelings for her but also he felt quilty he was hurting her. I believe he felt guilty he was hurting me too but also believed that we were going to put our lives back together. Very confusing for him. It wasn't until he was truly over OW that we started to work on us. During all that time our life was about surviving not rebuilding. Does this make sense ?? I am not telling you this to discourage you just to make sure you are prepared for the ups and downs. One day my H was talking about moving home the next day he would be totally distant. It was very frustrating. You stay strong, positive, no pressure and continue to take care of yourself during this time because there is nothing we can do to make H get over feelings for OW.
