No Contact for the sake of Sanity

[brandnewday]

Cinders,
Don't try to put a time line on things, OK.
It will push you over the edge.
My H was gone for over 2 years.
He was in MLC for over 4 years.

[a new 2moro]

Hey Cinders,
You can make it! Its a horrible trip in the beginning. Been there done that! I was sooo on the floor.....I couldnt rise above my grief. There are times when I still let what they are doing creep in...but much less now. I can see that I have the better life.....his is shallow and not based on love....just two needy people using each other for all the wrong reasons. I k+now he "thinks he has found his soulmate", if they stay together I will be free to find a real love maybe even deeper that the one I had with H. The miracle is in you finding you! If your H comes back...well thats a bonus that you get a chance to build a better M from the ashes of the old one. There is a huge ring of truth when everyone says ..live your life like your H is never coming back. Until you can do that...you are also stuck in an unhealthy vortex.

[Cinderellaman]

Hi Jeanette !!!

Gosh, I feel so lucky to have so many of you lovely and wonderful people popping over !!! Thank you !!

Yes - I hope I will have my miracle too ....

AND SO WILL YOU !!!!!

Thanks for popping in, hope everything is ok with you, will pop into your thread to see how things are going now ....

[Grace_O]

Hey Cinders,

By the time I catch up on your thread, it's already afternoon for you. I'm glad to see you feel a little better now.
You know you don't have to hope for a miracle......you're creating it as we speak.
Have a great weekend!

[Cinderellaman]

Gee Grace..........thanks....that was really sweet...the creating a miracle thing....WOW !!

Thanks for dropping by, hope you're doing allright too....!!!! Will drop in your thread in a minute !!

[Cinderellaman]

Sorry Grace, can't seem to find you !!! Are you posting ? How are you ??

[mrspoolboyz]

(((((((((((((((((((((Cinders))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Hey, you! Yes you! Put that smile back on your face ok!

I know it hurts, sugar, and It is not fair!

We have to do what we have to do, which is be good to ourselves and our children.

I'm sorry but I had to laugh when you said you wanted to call the whore's parents LOL.

Um why don't you call her teacher so that they can just give her detention.

hee hee

luv ya


smooches

[Cinderellaman]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA !!!!!

Yep you got that smile back on my face allright !!!! Loved the detention bit !!!!! hahahhahahahahahaha

Gracias amiga !!! xxxxx

[Grace_O]

Cinders,

I'm ok, thanks for asking. I usually post on Mondays b/c the weekends are the worse for me. We dance on Saturdays and maybe Friday nights.

So is the smile still on? The detention remark made me LOL.

[Cinderellaman]

Yep smile still on !!! Have to take D8 to hockey practice in a little while, then at 7pm H will be here to take the kids with him till Sunday 2pm !!!

Will be back later !