No Contact for the sake of Sanity

[a new 2moro]

Hey Cinders,
You can make it! Its a horrible trip in the beginning. Been there done that! I was sooo on the floor.....I couldnt rise above my grief. There are times when I still let what they are doing creep in...but much less now. I can see that I have the better life.....his is shallow and not based on love....just two needy people using each other for all the wrong reasons. I k+now he "thinks he has found his soulmate", if they stay together I will be free to find a real love maybe even deeper that the one I had with H. The miracle is in you finding you! If your H comes back...well thats a bonus that you get a chance to build a better M from the ashes of the old one. There is a huge ring of truth when everyone says ..live your life like your H is never coming back. Until you can do that...you are also stuck in an unhealthy vortex.